Codependency has been a buzz word since the 1980's when Melody Beattie's work hit the best sellers list.  But do we really know what it means to be codependent?  What is the difference between loving others, wanting to take care of people and being codependent?   In this episode we define codependency, give you reall life examples of codependency and set you on the path of busting through!   Christie Bemis is a psychotherapist, a sex educator and relationship coach, an ignite your life mentor, and author.  She co-founded and now owns and operates Hot Pink YOUniversity, solo.  She is a Sex Educator and Relationship Coach, trained in the Somatica® Method of relationships and intimacy building, as well as certified in Level 1 of John Gottmans work.  Her work ignites women and couples to reconnect with passions, purpose and play.  You can find her coaching, her book, her wisdom cards and her offerings at www.hotpinkyou.com